Some of you have told me that you just can’t find other local homeschool moms that are on the same page as you. I still insist that you continue to pray 🙂 — because it is a prayer that God answered for me years and years ago. But, with that said, you might find Voxer to be a uniquely valuable tool.
Others of you might be like me. You’ve got a group, but it only meets once per month, and you’d like to see it be more than that — you’d like your interaction to be more regular.
What is Voxer?
Voxer is a push-to-talk live voice messaging service. I think it is completely fantastic. It was introduced to me by Mystie My Pretend Life Coach, which should come as no surprise since she’s the queen of useful tools. Voxer is an app that works on smart phones (both iPhones as well as Android phones), iPods (via WiFi — that is how I use it since I don’t have a smart phone). The app is free, but there is also a paid version that allows you to use it on a computer, or to use it with larger groups.
It’s basically texting and walkie-talkies and voicemail all mixed up in the best sort of way. I am not a good texter, having only sent my first text in 2014, and I love that voice intonation can really help avoid all those misunderstandings from the lack of tone that is part and parcel of things like email and texting. So in Voxer, I can send a message as a text — or even a video or photo. But I can also send a voicemail message. It’s delivered as I’m sending it (as long as they have internet access), so my friends can listen to the message live, if they wish. If not, it’ll be there when they have time.
Like when they are done changing diapers or making dinner.
I have had so many conversations that would have died due to kid interruptions remain vibrant because, with Voxer, we can just come back to it later.
Voxer allows for one-on-one or group conversations — up to 15 persons in a group for the free version.
How Does Voxer Work?
Here’s a screenshot from my iPod showing one of my ongoing conversations with Mystie. See the three buttons at the bottom? The one on the left is for attaching a photo or video. The one on the right is for a normal text message. The one in the middle is my fave — it’s for the walkie-talkie voice message. When that middle button is pressed down, it turns green, and that is how you know you are recording yourself.
This image is of a private conversation. A group conversation would look basically the same, but have multiple people interacting. Conversations can have different names, so at the top where it has Mystie’s name, I like to name my different groups or topics so that it is easier to keep track of them all.
One important thing for me has been that Voxer allows me, with an iPod, to send a message to friends and family that use Android devices.
Building Community with Voxer
I’m not suggesting that Voxer is or should be a substitute for real-life interaction, unless real-life interaction is simply not possible. For example, if the Scholé Sisters waited until we could see each other in real life to talk, we’d never talk. I guess what I mean is that we all still need people we meet with in real life.
But a lot of us work virtually and need to build teams virtually, and I find Voxer to be really super helpful.
I also find it to be a fantastic supplement to my real-life groups. For example, I have a group of wonderful women with whom I’m studying homeopathy. We have met in person many times — we actually took an entire course together — , but we can’t permanently add regular, scheduled study meetings to our busy lives. And so, we chat on Voxer. We talk about choosing remedies or what we’ve learned — it is a great way to keep up our knowledge base while not taking lots of time away from our families and other duties.
I’ve planned events, park dates, and group meetings all on Voxer. Like I imagine texting is for some of you, I’ve found it to be a quick and easy way to throw an activity together.
I’ve also used Voxer for book discussions with people who can’t meet in person. It works really well for this, and allows book club to be an ongoing thing, rather than a one-night-per-month thing.
For Those of You Who Feel Alone
I know that some of you are isolated — you live in the middle of nowhere, you’re a missionary on foreign soil, etc. Voxer is awesome for this. It’s no respecter of time zones or geography, and so your messages are delivered and waiting for your recipient when they’re available. I started Voxing with a long-time missionary friend recently, and it’s been a blast to hear her voice after so many years of reading each other’s words over emails or on forums and blogs.
This is a way to connect with other homeschool moms in the trenches. Because it is a recorded conversation instead of a text, it doesn’t have to be super short and to the point — you can even pour your heart out if you need to. (And the ability to listen at x2, x3, or even x4 speed means your friends don’t actually have to spend as much time listening as you spent getting your words out.)
If you’re looking for a tool that allows flexibility and interaction between iProducts and Android and that saves your messages for future review, Voxer is a good fit.
When you have to walk away from a conversation because Johnny just let a wet dog in the house, it’s not a big deal because Voxer totally works for the life of a mom.
Why I’m Writing All of This
Goodness. This totally sounds salesy, which is weird. Let me explain a tiny bit.
This week we had Stuff Happen. With the group messaging feature, I was able to get advice from a lot of people I trust in a really short amount of time. If I had had to call or write various people individually, it would never have happened. I would just have tried to take care of it all myself. But with Voxer, I could leave a three minute message telling my tale of woe, and in an hour I’d heard back from multiple friends. People were praying, giving advice, and I was oh so thankful.
Sometimes, we just need to be able to reach out and connect with others — to lean on each other when things are bad or rejoice with each other when things are good. When I was growing up, a lot of our friends and family lived within walking distance of our house. But now, many of my church and homeschool community members live much farther than that. There is a sense in which Voxer has become my village well, my office water cooler.
People say technology drives us apart, and I know that sometimes this is true. (I have said this many times myself.) But I’ve learned that it can be a useful tool as well.
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